Pretoria - Post Report Question and Answers

Is this a good city for single people? For couples? For families? Why or why not?

I think it's great for everyone depending on what you want. There are lots of easy day and weekend trips nearby. There are a fair number of singles here to do things with. - Apr 2023


Many singles say that life here is isolating, I think because things are geared toward families with children. You have to make your own life here. - Mar 2023


This seems to be a pretty good post for families with younger children and even the HS kids don't seem to mind it so much. For singles I think Pretoria is difficult; not much night life; people are spread out all over the city so no big compounds where tons of people are located. For couples it's not great either, I don't think, because everyone is pretty isolated. You really have to make an effort to get out and socialize. There are plenty of places to go out to eat, if that's your thing; and there are movie theaters; but not much live entertainment or events. - Jun 2022


With good security awareness, this place is ideal for families and couples, but unfortunately I think that is a little more challenging for single people. No nightlife at all. - Jan 2020


It's very family-friendly, but seems to be good for singles and amazing for couples. There are so many places to go. For singles, there is a large expat community (diplomatic and professional) and a large numbers of professional locals from a similar culture to the US. - Dec 2019


Good for families. For singles, it's hard to go out at night because of safety concerns. - Mar 2019


Families do well here. I think singles are often bored. - Jan 2018


This place has everything you need to make life happen. Stores do close earlier than in the States so this does require everyone to make adjustments but again I think everyone can make this place a good city to live in. - Oct 2014


Good for families. Probably hard for singles. Although there is a lot to do, everything closes early and there doesn't seem like there is much of a singles scene here. - Jun 2012


Better for families than singles. Much of life happens inside the home or at the mall. There are some clubs, but nothing great. For the good nightlife people go to Johannesburg. A lot more variety there, and people tend to be more friendly. The drive is a pain though, and dangerous at night because of all the drunk drivers. - Dec 2009


Singles may have the hardest time of any group here, particularly single women, because of the security concerns. This has been a paradise for our family with young children - there is so much to do with the kids and the weather makes it easy to be outside all day. - Aug 2009


Pretoria is really quite small with only a handful of good restaurants and some dance clubs/bars for singles or couples. If you are looking for entertainment and good restaurants, go to Johannesburg. South Africa offers a lot of travel opportunities (hiking, camping, safari, city touring) that make up for city life in Pretoria. - Feb 2009


Good for families though middle school. Rough for high schoolers. - Oct 2008


Singles prefer Johannesburg; it has more nightlife. Pretoria is a quiet city with some good restaurants. Family living is made tough because of the security concerns. Kids just can't walk down the street to play with their friends. If they have no activities after school, they are generally stuck at home. - Sep 2008


For older kids it can be tough as there is always a lot of coordination involved for play dates etc., otherwise, good for families. Good for singles/couples. - Jun 2008


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